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Issue# 8 Embracing Islamic Etiquette
Embracing Islamic Etiquette
Embracing Islamic Etiquette
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu!
Islam is the complete code of life, that has given us comprehensive guidelines for a disciplined and successful life. It also taught us manners and etiquette to live life with grace and humility.
A Muslim’s lifestyle consist of his faith and manners, these manners are not alien to the Islamic faith, but are it’s essential and Integral part.
QUOTE AND HADITH
“When one of you arrives in a gathering, he should offer salutation to those who are already there, and he should also do so when he intends to depart. The first act of greeting is not more meritorious than the last.” [Abu Dawood]
"The best among you are those who have the best manners and character."
“When three of you are together, two of you must not converse privately ignoring the third till the number increases, lest the third should be grieved.” [Bukhari & Muslim]
SELF-IMPROVEMENT
Practicing Good Manners.
Good manners and etiquette are essential aspects of a Muslim’s life. They reflect our inner character and demonstrate our commitment to Islamic values. Here are some key areas to focus on:
Respect and Kindness: Treat everyone with respect and kindness, regardless of their background or status. Simple acts like greeting others with "Assalamu Alaikum" or “Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu” and smiling can make a significant difference.
Honesty and Integrity: Always speak the truth and act with integrity. Avoid lying, cheating, or engaging in deceitful behavior.
Humility: Practice humility in your interactions. Avoid arrogance and remember that all achievements are by the grace of Allah (SWT).
Patience: Cultivate patience, especially in challenging situations. Respond to anger or frustration with calmness and understanding.
Gratitude: Express gratitude for the blessings you receive and acknowledge the efforts of others. A simple "JazakAllah Khair" can go a long way.
SPIRITUAL INSIGHT
The Importance of Adab
Islamic etiquette, or Adab, is deeply rooted in the teachings of the Quran and the Sunnah. It encompasses all aspects of a Muslim’s life, from personal hygiene and manners to interactions with others and worship practices.
Hadith Insight: The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “Nothing is heavier on the believer's Scale on the Day of Judgment than good character. For indeed Allah, the Most High, is angered by the shameless obscene person.” - Jami` at-Tirmidhi
Adab reflects our relationship with Allah (SWT) and His creation. It is a manifestation of our faith and our commitment to living according to Islamic principles.
Practical Tips for Incorporating Islamic Etiquette
Daily Greetings: Make it a habit to greet others with "Assalamu Alaikum" and a smile. This simple gesture fosters a sense of brotherhood and peace.
Mindful Communication: Speak kindly and avoid gossip or backbiting. Remember, words have power, and choosing them wisely reflects good character.
Respecting Elders: Show respect to elders by listening to them, seeking their advice, and offering assistance when needed.
Helping Others: Be proactive in helping others, whether through charity, volunteering, or simple acts of kindness. Small deeds can have a big impact.
Cleanliness: Maintain personal hygiene and cleanliness, as it is an important aspect of faith. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) emphasized that "Cleanliness is half of faith." - Sahih Muslim
Table Manners: Practice good manners while eating, such as eating with the right hand, saying "Bismillah" before meals, and not wasting food.
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THOUGHT BREAKFAST
Beginner Book for Giving Dawah: The Divine Reality by Hamza Andreas Tzortzis
A major Issue among the Muslims is the lack of Islamic Knowledge
The best place to start is reading the Quran (Of course) and understanding it through Translations
Learning the Proper Aqeedah is also very Important.